Let’s say you don’t like marmite. And I say, I’m going to have to end your life unless you like marmite and eat it! (I’m reasonable like that). So perhaps we fight, because you really believe that not liking marmite is the thing for you. One or both of us might die. But there’s another … Read more13. Modern warfare – we should kill ideas not people #Syria
Have you ever had that thing where someone says to you ‘Sorry I didn’t reply to your message, I’m so busy’? BULLSH*T. I do this bullsh*t too. Sometimes ‘I’m too busy to go to the gym’. Or ‘I just didn’t have time to work on a personal project’. Or ‘I’m too busy to meet up … Read more9. Why ‘I’m too busy’ should be eradicated from our vocabulary
I was walking along the street in London and this homeless guy was arguing with a pot plant. He shouted at it ‘you tw*t!’. Arguing with a pot plant – he’s got to be a little insane right? So how insane is arguing with YOURSELF? You, versus you. All sides of the argument coming from … Read more8. The madness of the mind – would you argue with a pot plant?
An estimated 1 million people across the globe commit suicide every year – that’s about 1 death every 40 seconds (World Health Organisaton). If someone’s suicidal, what are you going to do? Tell them to meditate, observe their feelings, remain in the seat of awareness and realise that they are part of a cosmic oneness … Read more5. Just choose the thing that makes you feel a little better
We all have things we want to do, to experience and to be. Starting your own business, a DIY project, a fitness regime, a relationship, a creative art, travelling – the list is endless. Unless there’s some serious reason why you can’t pursue these things, there’s only one question: HAVE YOU STARTED YET? Your clever … Read more3. Have you started yet?
First up – I know sometimes we have to make decisions to do things that we may not jump at the prospect of doing – because we have responsibilities, people to take care of and so on. This is more about when you have a real choice. Whether that choice is about attending a social … Read more2. Decision making made easy
Inspired by ‘Choose Yourself’ James Altucher. In my conservative Indian upbringing, there is not really such a thing as ‘choosing yourself’. Generations of old school Hindu Punjabi tradition – although softening – are still in full swing in my life experience. As a female in this environment, my experience is that life is to be … Read more1. 7 rules I broke, because I wanted to choose myself